Transformation May Be Hard, but It’s Destined

Transformation May Be Hard, but It’s Destined

Let me keep it real—transformation is not for the faint of heart. It’s not some cute journey wrapped in positivity quotes and Instagram filters. Transformation is raw, it’s messy, and it will break you down before it builds you up. But here’s the kicker: it’s the most important evolution you’ll ever experience. Why? Because it’s the fire that shapes you into who you’re meant to be.

At Orange RUBIE Life Style, LLC, transformation is at the heart of everything we do. RUBIE stands for Refining Under Beloved Infinite Energy, and trust me, that refining process? It’s not soft. It’s not gentle. It’s the kind of process that shakes your foundation, strips away your old self, and forces you to face the parts of you you’ve been avoiding. Transformation is waking up in the middle of the night questioning your purpose. It’s losing people you thought would always be in your corner. It’s looking in the mirror and not even recognizing the person staring back at you because you’re somewhere between who you were and who you’re destined to become.

I know this firsthand because I’ve lived it. My transformation didn’t come with a warning label—it hit me hard and fast, like a storm I wasn’t ready for. I’ve been through heartbreak, chaos, and those gut-wrenching moments where you’re left wondering, What now? I’ve made mistakes, pushed people away, and had to come face-to-face with my own demons. There were times I wanted to give up, where the weight of it all felt too heavy to carry. But instead of letting it break me, I leaned into the fire. I stopped asking, Why me? and started asking, What can I learn from this?

And let’s get one thing straight: transformation is not a punishment. The challenges, the heartbreak, the setbacks—they’re not life’s way of being cruel. They’re the universe’s way of building you, shaping you, and preparing you for what’s next. As Rick Warren said, “Transformation is a process, and as life happens, there are tons of ups and downs. It’s a journey of discovery—there are moments on mountaintops and moments in deep valleys of despair.” (Source: BrainyQuote) Every hard moment is molding you into the person you’re supposed to be. Diamonds don’t shine without pressure, and gold isn’t pure without fire. The same goes for you.

I remember when my life felt like one of those valleys Rick Warren talks about—deep, dark, and endless. My bipolar diagnosis was a storm I didn’t see coming. It wasn’t just about managing the highs and lows; it was about figuring out who I was through it all. It was about learning how to love myself even on the days I felt unlovable. And trust me, it wasn’t easy. But through all the breakdowns, the setbacks, and the sleepless nights, I realized something powerful: this isn’t where my story ends.

Take it from Nia Peeples, who said, “Life is a moving, breathing thing. We have to be willing to constantly evolve. Perfection is constant transformation.” (Source: The Merrymaker Sisters) Transformation isn’t about being perfect; it’s about evolving, growing, and stepping into the best version of yourself—over and over again.

And Cory Booker nailed it when he said, “You can’t have a physical transformation until you have a spiritual transformation.” (Source: BrainyQuote) Real change starts inside. It’s about shifting your mindset, releasing what no longer serves you, and believing that you are meant for more—even when it feels impossible.

Here’s the thing about transformation: it’s not just about surviving the tough moments; it’s about thriving because of them. At RUBIE, we don’t just talk about transformation—we live it. We’re here to help you turn those struggles into stepping stones, to turn your pain into purpose, and to show you that the fire you’re in right now is the same fire that’s making you unbreakable.

I’ve been in that fire, and let me tell you, it’s not just about getting through it—it’s about owning it. It’s about walking out of that fire with your head held high, knowing you’re stronger, wiser, and more powerful than ever. And it’s bigger than just you. When you transform, you create ripples. Your growth inspires others to grow. Your resilience shows others what’s possible. At RUBIE, we’re not just building individuals; we’re building movements. We’re breaking generational cycles, transforming communities, and creating legacies that last. Transformation is about rising not just for yourself, but for everyone who looks to you for hope and strength.

So, if you’re in the thick of it right now, let me remind you: You were made for this. Transformation isn’t just hard—it’s necessary. It’s not just painful—it’s purposeful. Every struggle, every tear, every moment of doubt—it’s all setting you up for something bigger. And when you rise, the world won’t know what hit it.

Stop running from the process. Stop resisting the fire. Lean into it, own it, and let it refine you into the powerhouse you were always meant to be. Because transformation isn’t just a chapter in your story—it’s the foundation of your legacy. And trust me, you’re about to leave a mark no one can erase.

The fire you’re walking through isn’t the end—it’s just the beginning. Let’s rise together. Let’s transform.

-Courtney